平成16年度,第4回 21世紀出生児縦断調査,, 第130表 子ども数・総数に対する割合,子どもを育てていて負担に思うことや悩み(複数回答)、性格(複数回答)別 注:子どもを育てていて負担に思うことや悩みがある者から集計。 ,総数,活発,誰にでも愛想がよい,お調子者,1人でやりたがる,好奇心が旺盛,おとなしい,何事にも慎重,気が弱い,恥ずかしがり屋,人見知りが激しい,何事もマイペース,素直,甘えん坊,のんびり屋,気が短い,我(気)が強い,勝ち気、負けず嫌い,執着心が強い,飽きっぽい,落ち着きがない,せっかち,その他,わからない ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, 総数,41559,22226,13469,15408,18501,16937,3239,5928,3114,13902,4296,11505,9435,23685,3146,6903,18323,12215,5919,6519,9780,2513,1662,364 子育てによる身体の疲れが大きい,12584,6982,4231,4924,5835,5654,1064,1992,1055,4340,1491,3709,2815,7673,1037,2458,6086,3894,2239,2401,3657,978,498,93 しつけのしかたが家庭内で一致していない,4962,2709,1677,2064,2305,2157,400,660,473,1747,578,1412,1021,3041,408,1159,2566,1624,945,1128,1650,442,247,39 子どもについてまわりの目や評価が気になる,3445,1830,1144,1423,1537,1501,327,568,413,1300,475,1108,725,2069,336,907,1776,1080,712,867,1319,364,149,28 目が離せないので気が休まらない,6301,3888,2511,2722,3001,3242,406,809,550,1805,598,1828,1326,3690,453,1488,3180,2058,1233,1497,2740,649,205,43 子どもをもつ親同士の関係がうまくいかない,663,310,197,251,304,274,72,113,79,263,115,210,158,421,77,171,338,206,128,152,215,59,40,6 子どもが言うことを聞かない,11443,6509,3790,4949,5130,4961,683,1209,995,3660,1332,3072,1553,6745,816,3120,6550,3656,2107,2785,4652,1076,443,89 しつけのしかたがわからない,3037,1557,919,1243,1313,1200,278,444,371,1070,436,877,524,1825,296,891,1649,948,616,882,1272,297,147,25 気持ちに余裕をもって子どもに接することができない,9487,4944,3002,3836,4166,3761,746,1333,908,3245,1095,2696,1749,5534,853,2189,4823,2852,1709,2022,3100,773,441,79 子どもを好きになれない,176,73,57,71,69,68,23,20,25,59,30,49,19,94,18,56,108,58,52,64,81,28,14,3 子どもが保育所・幼稚園に行きたがらない,1035,377,194,341,399,314,148,214,145,484,263,285,193,752,100,247,497,293,207,193,248,82,52,11 総数,100.0,53.5,32.4,37.1,44.5,40.8,7.8,14.3,7.5,33.5,10.3,27.7,22.7,57.0,7.6,16.6,44.1,29.4,14.2,15.7,23.5,6.0,4.0,0.9 子育てによる身体の疲れが大きい,100.0,55.5,33.6,39.1,46.4,44.9,8.5,15.8,8.4,34.5,11.8,29.5,22.4,61.0,8.2,19.5,48.4,30.9,17.8,19.1,29.1,7.8,4.0,0.7 しつけのしかたが家庭内で一致していない,100.0,54.6,33.8,41.6,46.5,43.5,8.1,13.3,9.5,35.2,11.6,28.5,20.6,61.3,8.2,23.4,51.7,32.7,19.0,22.7,33.3,8.9,5.0,0.8 子どもについてまわりの目や評価が気になる,100.0,53.1,33.2,41.3,44.6,43.6,9.5,16.5,12.0,37.7,13.8,32.2,21.0,60.1,9.8,26.3,51.6,31.3,20.7,25.2,38.3,10.6,4.3,0.8 目が離せないので気が休まらない,100.0,61.7,39.9,43.2,47.6,51.5,6.4,12.8,8.7,28.6,9.5,29.0,21.0,58.6,7.2,23.6,50.5,32.7,19.6,23.8,43.5,10.3,3.3,0.7 子どもをもつ親同士の関係がうまくいかない,100.0,46.8,29.7,37.9,45.9,41.3,10.9,17.0,11.9,39.7,17.3,31.7,23.8,63.5,11.6,25.8,51.0,31.1,19.3,22.9,32.4,8.9,6.0,0.9 子どもが言うことを聞かない,100.0,56.9,33.1,43.2,44.8,43.4,6.0,10.6,8.7,32.0,11.6,26.8,13.6,58.9,7.1,27.3,57.2,31.9,18.4,24.3,40.7,9.4,3.9,0.8 しつけのしかたがわからない,100.0,51.3,30.3,40.9,43.2,39.5,9.2,14.6,12.2,35.2,14.4,28.9,17.3,60.1,9.7,29.3,54.3,31.2,20.3,29.0,41.9,9.8,4.8,0.8 気持ちに余裕をもって子どもに接することができない,100.0,52.1,31.6,40.4,43.9,39.6,7.9,14.1,9.6,34.2,11.5,28.4,18.4,58.3,9.0,23.1,50.8,30.1,18.0,21.3,32.7,8.1,4.6,0.8 子どもを好きになれない,100.0,41.5,32.4,40.3,39.2,38.6,13.1,11.4,14.2,33.5,17.0,27.8,10.8,53.4,10.2,31.8,61.4,33.0,29.5,36.4,46.0,15.9,8.0,1.7 子どもが保育所・幼稚園に行きたがらない,100.0,36.4,18.7,32.9,38.6,30.3,14.3,20.7,14.0,46.8,25.4,27.5,18.6,72.7,9.7,23.9,48.0,28.3,20.0,18.6,24.0,7.9,5.0,1.1